A few weekends ago I spent some time at the coast with six other women, getting our craft on and catching up on life. They are all married, several with a kiddo or two...or five. They are all equally stellar and ordinary human beings and it was fun to listen to how their lives are arranged with the complications of husbands and children and their own selves.
It's been said before and better, but it occurs to me that the gun-to-the-head excitement is short-lived fluff. These women seem to have found a key element to a good relationship...the main person who goes with them through the day-to-day grind of repetition, frustration, boredom and befuddlement, making it all a bit more fun, a bit more bearable. It's in the everyday that the real deaths can lie and where we need reasons to keep our hearts pumping.

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